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December 28 DH3Every storm brings with it hope that somehow by morning, everything will be made clean again.
And even the most troubling stains will have disappeared. Like the doubts over his innocence,
or the consequence of his mistake, like the scars of his betrayal,or the memory of his kiss.
So we wait for the storm to pass hoping for the best, even though we know in our hearts some stains are so indelible,
nothing can wash them away.
每随风暴而来的是希望——不论如何，到了早晨，一切都会变干净，即使最顽固的污点也会消失。 像对清白的疑惑，错误的结果，背叛的创伤，亲吻的记忆。我们等待着风暴退却，期待着雨过天睛。
即使我们清楚在心中, 有些污点是如此顽固，没有什么能将它们清除。
We all carry something with us. Of course, it's nice if we travel with someone who can help lighten the load.
But usually, it's easier to just drop what we've been carrying so we can get home that much sooner.
Assuming, of course, there will be someone there to greet us when we arrive. Why do we clutch at this baggage, even when we're desperate to move on?
Because we all know there's a chance we might let go too soon.
我们都在负重前行。当然，能结伴而行会很幸福, 有人帮助分担重负。但通常抛掉负担会更简单。 这样我们就能早日归家。设想着，当然,有人会在家迎接我们归来。为什么有人仍然抓住行李不放，即使我们不顾一切的向前看。
因为我们都知道，有的机会也许我们放弃的太快。
We all have our reasons for rewriting history.Sometimes we need to provide ourselves alibis. Sometimes we wanna hurt someone who has hurt us, and then there are times we just wanna spare ourselves embarrassment.
Of course, there are some who feel that to rewrite history is just another way to lie.
But what is history anyway....But a set of lies agree depend?
我们都有要改写历史的原因。有时候我们需要给自己找一些托辞。 有时我们想要伤害那些曾经伤害过我们的人, 有时我们只是不想自己困窘难堪。
当然，有时改写历史只是另一种方式去说谎。但是，历史究竟是什么呢。。。。难道只是一系列的谎言吗？
Yes, it can happen so quickly. Life as we know it can change in the blink of an eye.Unlikely friendships can blossom.
Important careers can be tossed aside. A longlost hope can be rekindled.
Still, we should be grateful for whatever changes life throws at us,
because all too soon the day will come when there are no changes left.
是的，世事瞬息万变。转眼之间，面目全非。不可能的友谊可以开花结果，重要的事业可以放置一边，灰飞烟灭的希望可以重新点燃。 不论如何，我们仍然要感激生活的改变，因为不久末日来临，就不在有任何改变了。
Passion. It's a force so potent we still remember it long after it's faded away. A drive so alluring it can push us to the arms of unexpected lovers.
A sensation so overwhelming it can knock down walls we built to protect our hearts.
A feeling so intense it resurfaces even though we try so hard to keep it buried.
Yes, of all emotions, passion is the one that gives us a reason to live and an excuse to commit all sorts of crimes.
激情，就算它在逝去很久以后，仍是让人如此难以忘记。它是如此强烈的诱惑，把我们推到意想不到的爱人怀中； 它是无法抗拒的感情，击垮了我们修筑起来的保护心灵的高墙；它是那尽管我们如此努力的埋藏，却仍浮出水面的炙热情感。
是的，在所有的情绪中，激情给了我们生活下去的理由，却也给我们了犯下各种罪刑的借口。
Power, it's the type of thing most people don't think about, until it's taken away. Whether it's the political power of the many,or a lover's influence over just one.
We all want some sort of power in our lives, if only to give ourselves choices.
Yes, to be without choices, to feel utterly powerless, well...it's a lot...like being alone...in the dark.
能量，多数人平日里毫不在意，直到有一天猝然消逝才会察觉。不论是大众的政治权力，还是恋人间亲亲我我的影响。 人生中我们都需要某种能量，哪怕只是给我们一些选择。
是的，假如连选择都没有，假如连一丝能量都没有，那么在黑暗中，蔓延开来的，就是无边无际的孤独。
From the moment we wake up in the morning till our head hits the pillow at night our lives are filled with questions. Most are easily answered and soon forgotten but some questions are much harder to ask because we're so afraid of the answer.
Will I be around to watch my children grow up? Am I making a mistake by marrying this man?
Could he ever truly love me? And what happens when we ask ourself the hard question
and get the answer we'd been hoping for? Well, that's when happiness begins.
从我们清晨醒来，到我们夜晚入睡，我们的生活充满了疑问。一些容易回答，也容易被忘记；有些问题却难以提出， 因为我们害怕知道答案——我能否活着看到孩子们长大？我是否嫁对了人？他是否会真心爱我？
以及，当我们终于开口问了问题，也得到了我们希望得到的答案，又会发生什么事情？幸福的生活将从此开始。
Family--there is nothing more important. They're the ones who show up when we're in trouble， the ones who push us to succeed，the ones who help keep our secrets.
But what of those who have no family to rely on? What happens to those poor souls...
who have no loved ones to help them in their hour of need?
Well...most learn to walk life's road by themselves. But a sad few of us...simply...stop trying.
世上没有比家人更重要的东西。他们在我们有困难的时候出现，驱策我们迈向成功，帮我们保守秘密。 但是那些无依无靠的人怎么办？那些在迫切需要时却没有心爱的人帮助的人怎么办？
其中大多数人跌跌撞撞摸索出一条生存之道。但也有像我们这样的少数人，心灰意冷的放弃…… 似是故人来 好像是很早以前的一部电影 山姆大叔在表达感情方面还是很细腻的 结局也往往让人唏嘘不已 只不过看过之后会让人有些黯然神伤罢了 扯远了 在离开了近三年后 那只终于露面了 一直以为自己早已百毒不侵了 可以坦然地面对了 但是当它悄悄潜逃后 我发现原来一切都没变 我还是那个我 而它早已不再是它了 只不过这些都被我封存在潘多拉的盒子里 不去理会 不去想念 但盒子一旦打开 那些回忆又回来了 I still care! Damn it!
它悄悄地来 又悄悄地走 连说再见的机会都没有了 而且永远都不会再有了 从此相望于江湖了吧 这个我只好认了 可笑的是这一周好像还有个圣诞节的节日 多么难忘啊 这个“礼物”真的没想到 也许这样最好 有些遗憾是一辈子的 人不可能没有遗憾吧 我的08就要过去了 好事有的 只不过在尾声阶段有些不爽 真的不可能了 那位故人就这样了吧 貌似是回来了 但它在已不是 或者说 它一直都是如此 而我的分辨力真的有待加强啊 吼吼吼吼 “断情殇”本来不是很理解的 现在明白了 Farewell 2008!  December 21 大港两日游 真他奶奶的 传说中的大港两日游 真让人难忘啊 不仅把我的睡眠彻底毁了 并且让我赶上了冬至这一天的大雪 很久很久没见过像这样的大风席卷着的大雪了 晚上狂风吼叫 那叫一个激烈啊 搞得本大爷根本没睡成觉啊 迷迷糊糊的到了早上 发现真的是白茫茫的一片 还没来得及欣赏好的雪景 就想到怎么回去啊 学校那辆破车能坚持到这里来接我们吗 果然8点多就出发的破车将近12点半才来接我们 我们大家早已冻的想骂人了 以后再也不来这鸟不拉屎的地方了
 本来很喜欢下雪的 看着白茫茫的雪景让人有一种温暖的感觉 回到市区已经快三点了 这个周末算是毁了 我可怜的睡眠啊 要等到下周日才能补啊 好运气似乎真的让我透支完了 这2008的岁末 有些让人难过的尾巴尾随 虽然结果还可以 但过程有些让人大失所望啊 我的08就要过去了 小猴子们似乎有些力不从心了 他们会好起来吗 我们的09会是完美的一年吗 只有尽自己最大努力了 本大爷就不信了 Yes.I can!  December 15 做人真的要低调啊 做人真的要低调这话一点都不假 本来很有信心的事情转瞬之间就会让你有晴天霹雳的感觉 丢人的事大话早已说完了 只有默默地承担这难以言语的恶果了 真的有想钻地洞的感觉了 发现自己要感冒了 真的病了 彩票大家都有好运气 唯独是我 也许我今年的好运气早已透支完了 有些胡言乱语 不知道怎么了 难道真的是自己实力不济 丢人丢到太平洋了 肯定有人再看笑话了吧 怎么会这么衰啊 今年快点过完吧  December 14 DH2......Control is extraordinary the tactics people employ to obtain it, some rely on deception,
while others engage in outright trickery, then there those who were resort to extortion.
Why do we fight so hard for control? Because we know to lose it's to put our fate in the hands of others,
and what could be more dangerous?
人们为了获得支配权会使用各种策略，有些人靠欺骗，有些人靠哄骗，还有些人诉诸敲诈。 为什么我们这么拼命要得到支配权呢？因为我们知道一旦失去它我们就会被别人所掌控，还有什么比这更危险呢？
Everyone enjoys the game of make believe now and then, of course the ways in which we play vary greatly,
sometimes we tell ourselves work won't interfere with our family life.
Sometimes we imagine certain relationships to be more meaningful than they really are.
Occasionally, we put on a show as if to convince ourselves our secrets are really all that terrible. Yes, the game of make-believe is a simple one. You start by lying to yourself, and if you can get others to believe those lies, you win.
人们都喜欢偶尔自欺欺人一下，当然每个人的方法各不相同。有的人告诉自己不会因家庭耽误了工作； 有的人喜欢想象一段比实际更有意义的生活。有时，我们制造假象，说服自己我们的秘密并没有那么糟糕。
是的，自欺欺人很容易。由欺骗自己开始，如果别人也相信你的话，恭喜你，你赢了！
Everyone in the world needs someone they can depend on, be they faithful friends, determined advocates,
or a loving family. But occasionally in life, the people we thought would always be there for us...
leave, and if that happens, it's amazing the length we will go to get them back.
每个人都需要有人依靠，做最忠诚的朋友，做自己的决定激励者，或者组成家庭。 但有时我们认为一直会陪伴我们的人――也会离开我们。当这发生的时候把他们找回来的路异常艰难。
In a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light,
whether it's a great flame that shows us how to win back what we've lost,
or a powerful beacon intended to scare away potential monsters, or a few glowing bulbs that reveal to us the hidden truth of our past.
We all need something to help us get through the night, even if it's just the tiniest glimmer of hope.
在充满黑暗的世界里，我们都需要一些光明。它可以是指导我们挽回失去的东西的一束火焰； 也可以是驱除潜在的恶魔的灯塔；或者是照亮我们隐藏真相的灯泡。我们都需要能让我们撑过黑夜的东西，哪怕是最微弱的希望光芒。
The world is filled with unlikely friendships. How did they begin, with one person desperately in need
and another willing to lend a helping hand. When such kindness is offered,
we are finally able to see the worth of those we have previously written off,
and before we've known it, a bond has formed, regardless of whether others can understand it.
Yes, unlikely friendships start up everyday, no one understands this more than the lonely, in fact, it's what they count on.
世界上到处都是不太可能的友谊。它们都是由一方迫切的需求和另一方伸出的援助之手开始的。 当这样的帮助提供给我们的时候，我们才明白曾经失败的价值。在我们相识之前，一条纽带就已经把我们连接在一起了，不管别人能否理解。
的确，不太可能的友谊每天都在发生，没有人能比孤独寂寞的人更了解这一点。事实上，不太可能发生的友谊就是他们的指望。
When the truth is ugly, people try to keep it hidden, because they know if revealed, the damage it will do. So they conceal it within sturdy walls, or they place it behind closed doors, or they obscure it with clever disguises,
but truth, no matter how ugly, always emerges, and someone we care about always ends up getting hurt,
and someone else will revel in their pain, and that's the ugliest truth of all.
当真相很丑陋的时候，人们想法设法来掩盖它。因为他们知道如果被发现的话后果相当严重。 所以他们用严实的墙来遮蔽它；或把真相关在紧闭的门后；或用聪明的伪装使它们变得朦胧。
但不管真相多么丑陋它们总会浮现，那些我们关心的人最后还是会受到伤害，而另外一些人却为他们的痛苦而快乐，这才是最丑陋的事实。 职称考试结束了 牵扯精力的 职称考试终于结束了 其实我一直也没把它当回事 是自信也好是懒惰也罢 总之自己在这方面投入的精力少的可怜 不过还好不是很难 除了一些教育法规不太感冒 业务还是没什么问题的 哈哈 轻松一下哈
 算算真的快结束了这一年 其实这一年的收获还是挺多的 做人还是不要太贪心的好啊 上周日在网上遇见了那只 居然聊了很久 没有讥讽和抱怨 也许真的是看淡了吧 自己无法控制的事为什么还要这么执着呢 还是好自为之吧 今天本打算好好睡个懒觉的 哪成想早早就醒了果然是受累的命啊 有些害怕的感觉 不知怎么说 就是感觉很多事都那么飘渺 让人心疼 友人说粉晶之类的可以转运 但我却没有任何想法 难道真的不行了吗 吼吼 December 10 Something from DH1......Competition, it means different things to different people. But whether it's a friendly rivalry, or a fight to the death.
The end result is the same. There will be winners, and there will be losers.
Of course the trick is to know which battles to fight. You see, no victory comes without a price.
竞争意味着不同的事对不同的人。但不管是一场友好的竞赛还是致命的搏斗，最终结局都是一样的――有胜利者，也有失败者。 当然，秘诀在于自己要知道该参加哪场斗争。因为，任何胜利都是有代价的。
People are complicated creatures, on the one hand, able to perform great acts of charity; on the other, capable of the most underhanded forms of betrayal.
It is a constant battle that ranges within all of us, between the better angels of our nature, and the temptation of our inner demons.
And sometimes the only way to ward off the darkness is to shine the light of compassion.
人是一种复杂的生物。一方面，能乐善好施；另一方面，也能背信弃义。我们的内心在善良的天使和欲望的魔鬼之间不断的斗争着。 有时，抵挡黑暗的唯一办法就是发出仁慈的光芒。
We are all searching for some one. That special person who will provide us what's missing in our lives, someone who can offer companionship, or resistance, or security.
And sometimes if we search very hard, we can find someone who provides us with all three.
Yes for all searching for someone. And if we can't find them, we can only pray they find us.
我们都在寻找某个人。那个特殊的人会填补我们生命中的空白，有的伸出友谊之手，有的防守反击， 有的给我们带来安全感。如果我们竭尽全力去寻找，有时会找到符合这三种条件的人。
没错，我们都在追寻某个人。如果我们没找到，就只能祈求他们来找我们。
Yes, life is a journey, one that is much better traveled with a companion by our side.
Of course that companion can be just about anyone - a neighbor on the other side of the street - or the man on the other side of the bed? The companion can be a mother with good intentions,
or a child who is up to no good. Still despite our best intentions,
some of us will lose our companions along the way and then the journey becomes unbearable.
You see, human beings are designed for many things. But loneliness is not one of them.
是的，人生是一场旅程，我们最好结伴同行。当然同伴可以是任何人。也许是对街的邻居，或者是同床的男人。 这位同伴可能是个用心良苦的母亲，也可能是个不怀好意的孩子。
虽然我们没有恶意，但有些人还是会在旅程当中失去他们的伴侣，接下来这段旅程开始变得难以忍受。要知道人可以忍受很多事，但孤独却不在其中。
Nothing is forever, and the time comes when we all must say goodbye to the world we knew, goodbye to everything we had taken for granted, goodbye to those we thought would never abandon us,
and when these changes finally do occur, when the familiar has departed,
and the unfamiliar has taken its place, all any of us can really do is to say hello…and welcome!
没有东西是永恒的。我们都会有离开世界的那一刻，那时我们要向曾经熟悉的世界说再见，向曾经没有珍惜的一切说再见， 向我们曾认为不会抛弃我们的人说再见。当熟悉变得陌生，当陌生变成习惯的时候，我们只能无力的说声：哈罗，欢迎 December 07 距离09年还有几天呢 真的是一眨眼的功夫就到了12月了 真的很快 想想这一年还真做成了不少事呢 有工作上的 还是工作上的 下周的职称考试过后就差不多了 而我自己的事似乎还停留再原点 很好笑 也很可悲 可这种日子还要过下去 不理会别人怎么说怎么看 我似乎还是我 又不是我了......
冬天真的来了啊 周四的大风降温可把我害惨了 晚晚自习后的狂风起码又八级了 还好离家很近 不过还是期盼着下雪的到来 这种干冷的天气让人喘不过气来 昨天上午四节课基本上就在浑浑噩噩中度过 有些佩服小猴子们 还能坚持写着 毕竟他们的压力也很大啊 考试又来了 不过是周一周二 我无所谓 只要能休息一下就好 今天早上醒来已经11点了 而我睡的一点都不爽 感觉浑身很痛 年龄毕竟是最残酷和现实的啊 不知道那只好不好 有时很想联系一下 可是理智说不行 没那个必要 如果要有一个人承担后果就偶好了 也没什么损失不是吗
美剧追的很无聊 可能快圣诞了吧 美国人没有心情看电视了 编剧S就有些浑水摸鱼了 PB是这样DW、UB、GA也是如此 可见这是大势所趋啊 只好开发新的 又不知有哪些好看的 就这么度过这个冬天吧 想冬眠啊  |
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